Thats life....

Submitted by Some Poor Sucker on Wed, 04/30/2008 - 10:14.

So I have this long relationship with this girl. Went out for 4.5 years. First half of the relationship was great. Second half when I get to go to college, not great. She gets super controlling, let alone cheats on me. So after a long time, I break up with her. Whatever, thats not the problem.

We continue being friends and we have sex and all that jazz. We hang out and do stuff that friends do, with the benefits. One day she really want to fuck and im totally down but was at school till late. She ends up fucking some guy she barely knows for like 10 minutes, then comes over the next day and tell me this, expecting me to fuck her. Great... what a slut.

And for the straw that broke the camels back...

The last one is when shes telling me she wants to go out and have a "date" that I plan, so I make the plans, tell her they have been made and Im gonna pick her up Friday night. Three days later, boom, she has a boyfriend now.

What a fickle bitch

what did u expect???

it sounds to me like you still wanted the relationship, if you didn't you shouldn't care she has a new boyfriend

that may be true

I guess its just hard thinking u are at a certain level with someone and then its just taken away. It sucks cause it happened a lot this way... O well, u are right tho. Time to move on

what'd you really expect?

You broke up, but you kept hanging out and having sex? So what exactly went away? The commitment, right? The monogomy. S

This is why it's a BAD BAD BAD idea to stay friends, and especially bad to keep having sex, after a breakup.

Unless...

Unless you can do it, keeping in mind that she WILL fuck you over eventually, so you have to keep the "I don't give a shit about her" mentality.